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Licensed Clinical Psychologist in San Francisco
As a licensed Clinical Psychologist with over 30 years of experience, I provide evidence-based psychotherapy tailored to individual needs. My practice integrates empirically validated methods like Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, and EMDR to address anxiety, trauma, depression, and life transitions. I prioritize building a collaborative, trusting therapeutic relationship while teaching practical skills for lasting change. My holistic approach combines Western pragmatism with Eastern mindfulness techniques to address mind-body connections.

With training from Penn State University and Kaiser Permanente, Ive served California residents through remote video sessions since launching my private practice in 1996. I specialize in helping clients overcome phobias, navigate sexuality/identity issues, and manage stress in high-pressure environments like startups. I maintain active memberships in the American Psychological Association and California Psychological Association to ensure continued professional excellence.
Services
Anxiety Treatment Trauma Recovery EMDR Therapy Depression Counseling Relationship Issues OCD Treatment Sexuality Counseling Stress Management Career Counseling Mindfulness Therapy
Details
  • Year established: 1996
Highlights and features
  • We offer 30+ years of clinical psychology expertise with doctoral-level training
  • Our practice integrates proven methods like CBT, ACT, and EMDR for maximum effectiveness
  • We provide personalized exposure therapy for phobias in real-world environments
  • Our holistic approach combines Western science with Eastern mindfulness techniques
  • We maintain active professional affiliations with APA and CPA for continued excellence
Services
Anxiety Treatment
Specialized treatment for generalized anxiety, panic disorders, and specific phobias using evidence-based techniques. Combines cognitive restructuring with gradual exposure therapy in controlled environments. Helps clients develop coping mechanisms for long-term anxiety management through skill-building exercises and mindfulness practices.
Trauma Recovery
Accelerated trauma healing using EMDR protocols for PTSD and distressing life events. Integrates bilateral stimulation with cognitive processing to reprocess traumatic memories. Focuses on reducing emotional distress while developing resilience through structured therapeutic frameworks.
Depression Counseling
Targeted interventions for depressive symptoms combining behavioral activation with cognitive restructuring. Addresses negative thought patterns and self-defeating behaviors through structured skill-building. Emphasizes creating meaningful life changes through goal-oriented therapeutic approaches.
Sexuality Counseling
Specialized support for sexual orientation exploration, gender identity issues, and relationship challenges. Addresses self-acceptance and family dynamics through affirming therapeutic frameworks. Focuses on developing healthy coping strategies for LGBTQ+ specific mental health concerns.
Stress Management
Holistic stress reduction programs combining mindfulness techniques with lifestyle modifications. Teaches practical coping strategies for high-pressure environments like startup workplaces. Focuses on work-life balance and sustainable stress management practices.
People
Freitag, Milam K MD
Licensed Clinical Psychologist
Doctoral-level psychologist with 30+ years of experience specializing in anxiety disorders, trauma recovery, and LGBTQ+ mental health. Combines evidence-based practices with personalized care to help clients achieve lasting emotional well-being through collaborative therapeutic relationships.
Questions
What therapeutic approaches do you use?
I primarily use Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, and EMDR with proven effectiveness for anxiety, trauma, and depression.
Do you offer remote therapy sessions?
Yes, I provide video therapy sessions for all California residents through secure telehealth platforms.
How do you handle payment and insurance?
I accept self-pay and provide documentation for out-of-network PPO insurance reimbursement. No direct insurance billing is available.
What are your specialty areas?
I specialize in anxiety disorders, trauma recovery, sexuality/identity issues, depression treatment, and stress management for high-pressure environments.
Can you help with phobia treatment?
Yes, I offer graduated exposure therapy for specific phobias, including situational fears like driving or using elevators, through structured skill-building programs.
Reviews (5)
Aarlo S.
May 16, 2018 Report
Top-notch therapist, helped me a TON. I can't say enough good things about him. He totally changed how I see things in ways that have helped me for years going forward (I saw him in 2016). I would recommend him to anyone. Do yourself a favor and go see him! Thank you Milam!!
Caroline N.
Dec 20, 2015 Report
When I first met Milam, he told me that our job together was to make me my own best friend. I didn't fully understand what he meant at the time. I have been seeing Milam regularly for over 8 months now, and wow, I'm feeling it!

Milam started our work together with a complimentary phone conversation to introduce himself and to get a feel for why I wanted his help. I felt like I was speaking to someone who inhabited the same planet. His approach is accepting, comforting, respectful, and grounded in reality. I found it easy to trust him, and he patiently let me get there. We often start
Sean Lopano
May 23, 2015 Report
I have worked with Milam over the last year and he has impacted my life greatly. He helped me through a number of issues from self esteem, confidence, general happiness, family, career and friendship to achieve great strides. I'm so grateful for his profound impact on my life. He's invaluable. 5-Stars is simply not enough. Thanks Milam!
Leigh C.
Apr 14, 2015 Report
Where do I begin? Milam Freitag works wonders! I had been to numerous therapists over the years for various issues, but after several years working with Milam, I can truly say he changed my life for the better. He is the most compassionate person who truly allows you to be you and is there to help guide you and support you through whatever the issue you have in your life is. He works a lot with EMDR and mindfulness practice - which have really changed my life. I am now meditate daily and it has been such an amazing experience. I wholeheartedly recommend Milam for anyone going through a tough
Catey Ritchie
Dec 21, 2014 Report
Milam Freitag is a fantastic therapist and I highly recommend him! Milam and I have worked together off and on for the last nine years. His warm, light, and kind manner always puts me at ease and opens the door for me to connect with how I am truly feeling. Milam integrates mindfulness into his therapy practice as well as his own life, which is very apparent when you work with him. He is insightful and grounded and backs it all up with extensive experience and education. Above all, Milam is dedicated to helping his clients lead full lives and I believe he has found his gift in that regard. Do something